Human mind

Human mind is a tricky thing.


It is much easier to explain to yourself in an external attribution way, so that you can accept what has happened without feeling conflicts with your self-cognition.  But meanwhile, internal attribution is more helpful in a practical way - since you are the cause, you potentially have the ability to fix the problem.


It is hard to deal with the conflicts between the facts and self-cognition, but only to face the problems and to solve them in a practical way can we overcome the problems.


Split the big problem into several small pieces to make each of them possible to be solved.  Also have the self-conscious and confidence that the answer is within you.


Thanks to mentor I and dear J for the wisdom.